How to Not Worry What Others Think

This episode is all about a mental reset!  How to stop worrying about what other people think.  It’s all about not allowing what other people think to rob you of your own dreams and instill fear in you. What I’m going to tell you, you already know deep down. But, I’m also going teach you how to take action on it and how to stay accountable; and if you do… you will have one of the happiest most productive months ever!

 

Obviously a lot of us worry about what other people think. Ask yourself, in what situation do I worry about what other people think? Is it in your business, you’re your parenting, with your body image, or is it just with all things at all times. When we worry about what other people think, we’re guessing. There’s no way you can know what the other person is thinking. You don’t know what you’ve triggered in that other person. You can’t get in to the other person’s head. The thing is, our brain hates ambiguity! We don’t like pieces to be left out. When we are forced to fill in the blank, we struggle with not having the definitive answer. When you are forced to fill in the blank, your brain always fills it in with a negative. The brain does this to protect us.

 

The next thing I’m going to tell you, might sting a little bit. But I’m saying this to you because I love you. Another reason we worry about what other people think is because we don’t have something else to worry about. People who are very busy with their own life and their own dreams don’t have time for it.  And to be even more honest, underdeveloped minds worry the most.  Developed minds understand that there are people out there who just aren’t going to like them, and that’s okay!

 

Listen, you can change this! I know because I’ve been there!  I want you to live your life for YOU and not for other people.  I want you to live your life on your agenda and not on the agenda of other people.

 

Other topics discussed on this episode:

  • Being a people pleaser versus being kind
  • How to live your life on your own agenda and not the agenda of others

 

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